Valentine’s Day is here and it’s that time once again when gifts are exchanged but you don’t need fancy vacations or public declarations of adoration to make your relationship rock solid.
The truth is its not the big things that makes a relationship or marriage great, but rather the random acts of kindness.
It is important you become a connoisseur of your partner. Learn the words, acts, expressions, gifts, and touches that are most desirable and meaningful to them. In other words, show your appreciation and love to your partner in the ways that mean the most to them.
The moment you step out of your world and into their’s, then your little acts of kindness become momentous as you help them feel known, valued, and loved. As Valentine’s Day is here, here are a number of simple things you can do to express your love to her.
Get Something Delivered Specially
Getting something delivered to your partner is one way to express their feelings. Having a gift delivered could be something as simple as a handwritten love letter or an ornament that expresses what you feel for them. Doing this before Valentine’s Day will surely let them know how you feel about them.
Giving your partner a massage or foot rub on Valentine’s Day is a subtle way to show you care and appreciate them.
Join Them In Something They Enjoy
This has the effect of changing the course of your relationship. Joining your partner to participate in a passion of theirs will not only improve the way your partner sees you but will also be an incredible thing to do for them on Valentine’s Day. It will make them feel appreciated and acknowledged in ways you probably never expected.
Leave Them A Love Note
Choose to leave her random love notes in her bag, lunch bag or anywhere she can find it easily. This sweet little gesture has the ability to capture your partners heart and make them know how good they have it.
Help With All The Chores
While you both may have household tasks assigned to each of you, you can choose to step in and do all the tasks prior to Valentine’s Day. your partner will definitely be bowled over with gratitude, especially if you’re doing it when they’re too tired or overwhelmed.
Welcome Them Warmly
It may have been a while you showed affection for your partner, but now is the time to do so. Drop whatever you’re doing when the other person walks through the door at the end of the day to greet them, give them a kiss and hug and connect. Even if it’s just for a moment, they will appreciate the fact that they are your priority and the unexpected show of love will warm their hearts.
Give Morning Perks
Little things such as helping them warm water for their baths in the mornings or preparing a quick meal before they head out to work can be a good way of showing them how much you care in this season of love.
Plan A Date Night
Surprise your partner with a date night. You can do a research of a fancy restaurant that will not drill a hole in your pocket. Be sure that it is a place they will like. They will appreciate you for surprising and planning it all.
Make Them A Mix Of Their Favourite Songs
You can get a mix of their favourite songs and put it on a CD or on their phone on the morning of Valentine’s Day. You can add that with a cup of their favourite drink and they will appreciate you more.