While love is a beautiful thing for those who are lucky to find it, it can also be painful for those who experienced the negative part of it. If you’ve not found love, be patient and wait for it. There’s no need to be depressed and feeling sorry for yourself for not being in love in your 20s.
That however is the unfortunate thing that happens to a lot of women especially Nigerians. Apparently single Nigerian Women have sleepless nights as a result of a number of things ranging from not being in love to their fertility clock winding down. While it is good to think about these things at times, it makes not much sense to spend good time that can be employed into other positive activities worrying about such things.
There’s nothing as worse as living your life worrying about things so much so that you become consumed with things that don’t really matter.the simple fact that these things happen doesn’t mean you’re a failure as there would always be other positive things to look forward to in life. Here are six things that almost every Nigerian woman should really stop worrying about in her mid 20s.
When Will He Marry Me?
Perhaps due to societal pressure, a lot of Nigerian Women worry about the time their men will give them a ring and take the decision to wife them. Women should really stop worrying about this as it will change nothing. It’s best to instead think of the numerous possibilities life has to offer you and take advantage of it instead of wasting time worrying about such. You’d probably get married eventually and you’d laugh at the times you had sleepless nights worrying.
All My Friends Are Married With Children
A lot of Nigerian Women begin to worry when they find out that they are the only single unmarried person among their friends. They begin to think of whether there is some spiritual reasons why no man is paying them attention whereas their friends are already having children. Worrying about this may cause you to begin to envy and even hate your friends to a point where it will consume you. Forget about this, live happy everyday and your desires will come to fruition.
Not Finding The Right Man
Finding a man is not the ultimate as your life can be as interesting and meaningful without a man. Your life should not end because you worry about not finding Mr Right. You don’t need a man to be fulfilled even though a man can add to your fulfilment.
I’m Always The Bridesmaid, Never The Bride
It can be quite frustrating to see all your friends call you to be their bridesmaid and you’re wondering when yours will come along. Hold on and stop wasting your energy worrying about such. Just enjoy celebrating with your friends before yours come along.
Your Fertility Clock Is Winding Down
From the moment a woman attains childbearing age, her fertility clock starts to tick and her time to have children status to run out. With advances in medicine, there’s really no need to be worried about your biological clock as there are a number of options to explore.
What Your Parents, Friends And Relatives Think
You’d be constantly sad if you always worry about what others people think of you. You may not know it but the reasons why your parents and relatives constantly ask you about when you’d get married is that they they may not be able to think of any diverse thing to ask you. Most times, they ask because they are looking out for you and you should appreciate and not worry about it.
There’s no use worrying about certain things as worrying long enough never changes anything. Live your life the best way you can as life is too short to worry about anything.