Daddy Freeze shares his opinion on the Jhene Aiko and Dot Da Genius divorce saga.
Jhene Aiko has been accused of being unfaithful to Dot with Big Sean long before their marriage was over.
Now, if she has decided to call it quits, maybe for the same reason everyone is accusing her of ie a secret ongoing affair with Big Sean, isn’t it in the husband’s interest to accept the divorce and move on with his life?
And for Aiko, if a woman has to be with a man she would cheat on, isn’t it better she leaves him in peace and go to whomever makes her happy and can keep her thighs closed only to be parted for him?
Sometimes one has certain expectations before marriage that they fail to experience once they get into it and those who can work it out, work it out but for those who can’t, they either cheat, or like Aiko, step away, regardless what anyone has to say.
It’s better to be single and happy than be yoked with a person you can’t stay faithful to. Marriage isn’t a prison.
Still, Daddy Freeze’s words are always a worthy read:
I don’t think Jhene deserved to be slaughtered on social media.
The ‘volatile’ social media of 2016, allows victims to be torn apart by people, who oftimes are in worse off situations themselves.
I watched with utter amazement, as a 44 year old spinster, tore Jhene to shreds over her cheating allegations/divorce, calling her all sorts of unprintable names.
Because of this social media, that gives every Tom, Dick and Harry a microphone, a 44 year old woman, who has never been married and has no children can condemn another woman’s choice?
The first question on my mind was “Madam, how come you are not married at 44?” but fear no let me, as it was obvious that the poor mare needed an outlet to vent her frustration.
When Jhene started trending, I read tweets with awe, people who had little or no access to the real information, out of the blues became ‘professors of Jhene’, earning their PHDs and masters degrees on the subject, after spending all of 5 minutes digesting the story on TMZ.
Some others who weren’t afforded the education TMZ gave, as their data plans were limited, relied solely on Facebook and Twitter, for their ONDs and HNDs on the subject.
I respect Jhene for deciding to end a ‘fungating’ relationship. There are a few reasons why a woman would cheat, the worst being that her heart is no longer in the relationship. Should she have stayed and continued cheating on Mr Dot, or moved on?
Some suggested that she should have stayed and fixed her marriage, despite allegations of violence.
Hmmm like that gentleman in Ibadan who went home to try to fix his marriage after he was stabbed once? The poor guy is in the grave yard, with the story more or less buried with him.
Same thing with that pretty Lagos banker, who died with her children right there in the house, trying to fix her marriage. This year alone I have come across 4 or 5 of such stories, and wonder when, if at all, people are going to learn.
In the western world, they are not burdened with the responsibility we have, of pretending all is well on the home front, while we slide in and out of DMs and hotel rooms, yet ‘forming’ self righteous.
We’ve been eagerly waiting for Daddy Freeze to say something and now he has, and as always it’s filled with wisdom which some agreed with or banter of foolish words, as the other half would declare.
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