Women Sex Wednesday: Five Reasons She Never Achieves Orgasm

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These five reasons why a woman doesn’t climax during sex include: 

Naivety

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Some women are just plain naive. They have no idea what works best in their vaginas so they settle for mediocre sex and patiently wait for the man to hop off so they could go about their orgasm-deprived life.

Due to their ‘unawareness in sexual passion’ they do not know they should be able to enjoy coitus with their partner and how unfair it is to their vagina and entire well-being if they are aren’t sexually-satisfied even after providing orgasm to the man.

HELP: Communicate. The woman should disclose her naivety to the man while informing him she wants to achieve an orgasm and he had better hit it right else he wouldn’t hit it again. 

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These are professionals at sexual frustration. They love to tease, play, get horny and then they never cum. It does not matter if you open the vagina under a microscope, nothing happens. Rather, they will guard their orgasm with a gun (not literally). To these women, it’s about power-play.

Women who do this are usually alpha-females who turn out to be lesbians. They do not want to give a ‘man’ the satisfaction of giving them an orgasm so they will stall and stall and…… you know the rest.

HELP: Kiss and thrust. When the man is inside the woman he should engage in passionate sex with this type because they only cum from their mind. His job is to take her away from holding unto her orgasm and letting go so she can be caught off-guard as he leads her over the edge. These kind of women are also into kinks.  

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Most men give bad head. The cunninlingus can get so bad she does not even want the man or anything that revolves around him anywhere around her. If the sex must happen, she will basically tolerate it and endure those frustrating minutes till the man hops off. After which she never has sex with him till she dies or she just looks for some man who can do better than the previous less-satisfying man.

Read: Women’s Sex Wednesday: Enhance Your Libido

HELP: The clitoris is not the entire vagina as most men seem to think due to the various vaginas they have been through in their sexual journey of life. The clitoris is just a small sensitive organ at the anterior of the vagina. (In the image, the clit is the small spot covered with a hood). You do not need to rub over the entire vagina or vulva. Just nibbling on the clit bud while kissing on a woman’s vagina can get her telling the man to take it further, and faster.

Words men love to hear. 

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If a woman is not comfortable enough to take off her clothes or flaunt a little bit off skin, the man should be prepared to have sex with the lights turned off. Women who love their body are not bothered about low or high lights because they have nothing to be ashamed of.

If a man meets such a ‘shameful’ woman, he can spot it by how close she tries to stay in her skin. She will display signs such as sitting afar where the man would exert effort to get to her. The man might have the impression “the woman is ‘shy'”.

Read: Women Sex Wednesday: Eight Types Of Vaginas As Described By Men

HELP: Be her friend. When a friend is shameful about a thing, its your job to back them up with positive support. Who is the friend? The woman or the vagina? Wrong answer. The vagina is the man’s friend , therefore he must befriend her in every way till she is loose and pliable in his hands. Discover what appalls her and let her know that is exactly what you love. Play with her skin, especially the insides of her thighs, as that will get any  ‘body-shameful’ kind of woman to trust the man. 

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Regina might like to cum before the man as she enjoys the sex best with the tension rippling after the euphoria has washed off. Vera might like the man to cum first as she becomes lazy after she has achieved orgasm and would not want to put in further effort to make the sex, sexier. Jane might love to cum immediately or with the man as she enjoys the idea of having simultaneous orgasm. Each woman might like long, short or no-time frame sex. Different sex for different folks.

HELP: Find out what she wants. If the man has any intention to satisfy the woman, he should ask her what she wants and she should be mature enough to communicate openly about what and how she loves to be pleased.  

Wendiva Blaze

Wendiva Blaze

I’m just a vibe you won’t find anywhere else. That Sanguine Sapio-sexual. I Love 360nobs Pop Culture Journalist/ Publicist/ Presenter

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