A Facebook user, Nora Oma Patrick, shared a heartbreaking tale of a Nigerian woman who married another Nigerian resident abroad and completely ruined his life to get residency.
These stories seem to be getting more and more common per day, and we decided to share this version. Here is the gist of the story below as written by Nora Oma Patrick.
Yesterday one of my good friends who lives in the same city called me and like , “Chioma I swear , this world is coming to an end!”
Honestly, after listening to her , I took a long unprepared nap ! This is no longer men or women matter ! Human beings are becoming even more wicked these days !
Her story is that one of her town’s men called her yesterday , in fact they stayed over three hours on the phone , the guy had a melt down and thank God she was available , she at least give him the platform to verbalize his feelings.
So this guy came from back home to do his post graduate studies here in North America .
After some time , he decided it was time for him to get married ; that he didn’t have to wait until he graduates and somehow he got linked with this babe back home. This guy in question is 35 and his wife is 32 .
This guy , from the beginning, honestly told this babe that listen , am currently not working in obodo oyibo , I might do a little bit of side jobs but am still a student ooo ! A full time student !
The babe trust me pretended like she understood , presented herself like she was what the guy was looking for and they got married.
Down the line , she had a baby boy for the guy back home because the permanent residency papers he filed for her was not yet ready as of that time . This guy will be given student loan and he will send it home to his wife and son ,
Finally , everything was set for her to come join her husband in obodo oyibo ; on the day of her arrival here with her son , Oga and his friend went to pick them at the airport .
When he saw his wife , she was wearing this big frown , no sign of excitement of someone seeing her husband , no excitement of someone coming to obodo oyibo at least for the first time ! When Oga’s friend offered to take them a picture, and She refused !
Hian ! Oga’s friend was like it’s everything ok with your wife and he was like you know it has been a stressful journey traveling with a child and his friend was like ohk .
Almost one week later , madam was still carrying face at home , Oga was now like sweet whats is the problem ? And the wife blurted ,”I was told by this stupid immigration at the airport that I will only get my permanent residency after two years if am still married to you?” Oga was shocked !
He was like it is the new law and why its that a problem with you ?
Don’t you intend being married to me in the next two years ? And she walked away !
Then one day , while Oga was coming back from school , he walked in on madam telling someone on the phone , “you know its you I love.” That was when Oga connected the dots that madam has someone else she is in love with back home ! That she probably married his just to come abroad, divorce him and will now go home to bring her lover !
While he was trying to deal with this shock , madam was confirmed pregnant !
The doctor told her Oga that judging from the time madam arrived here , that the pregnancy is not his . As heartbroken as he was , he told her that he was willing to accept the pregnancy .
Madam pretended like agreed with Oga , only for her to go behind his back and did an abortion!
Oga only found out because he found her on the floor few days later bleeding , called 911 and she was rushed to the hospital
After receiving treatment, and returning home she starting home , she started doing that will make Oga beat her ! Sometimes she will wake up in the middle of the night and start a quarrel , she did some many things to push his button so that he can beat her and she will call the police for him .
The thing is that the two years permanent residency rule if the couple are still married has an exception ; victims of domestic violence are given permanent residency if they divorce , even if its less than two years of the marriage ! So madam wanted Oga to beat her so that she claim domestic violence, leave the marriage and still get her papers .
Finally, she went ahead and called the police one day , even though Oga did not even touch or do anything to her ! Police came and was like madam what happened and she couldn’t talk ! Why did you call us ? And she said nothing . Police called Oga aside and told him to better be careful !
Oge had to move out his apartment, is now squatting with a friend’s basement ! If not , he will either go to jail for domestic violence or end up in a psychiatric home !
In less than one year she came here, they are currently going through divorce ! Just like me and my friend agreed, we asked him to tell the court that he wants a DNA of their child , before even asking for any form of custody . At least to be sure the child is his , and yes he asked already ! This is not a women for women thing , I believe in justice !
Yes she can call us names but there is no way that guy is going to pay you child support if we are not sure the child is even his !
When asked why he stayed and tool all those things from his now estranged wife , he was like after calculating all the money , time and emotions he invested on the relationship , he felt he could manage , that he could change her , that the devil you know is better than the angel you don’t know !
Well , the karma you get for messing up with a good man or woman, is the bitch you will end up with !
Nora Oma (c),2015 .