What qualifies a man to be termed “Classy”? Can a man be called “Classy” without being “Rich”?
“Classy” means having or reflecting high standards in a person’s behavior as well as graceful, showing impressive demeanor. Classy qualities for a man includes respecting women, using proper language rather than the popular street slangs, dressing up appropriately with pants at a decent waist level, not too high and not too low. Classy men don’t sag their pants. Pant sagging is a prison-fashion that became accepted by people who ought be free.
Ponder on this questions for a moment as we begin this journey to unlock every woman’s dream which is to end up with that prince charming. To lock it down with a guy that’s got class and wealth. What qualifies a man to be termed “Classy”? Respect, Humility, Character, Responsible, Intelligent, Neat amongst lots of other traits. Can a man be called “Classy” without being “Rich”? Yes.
Being Classy is intrinsic, a trait you absorb from within. Being Rich is extrinsic, a material you acquire from without.
If you take away riches from a classy man, he still stays classy because being classy is a personality, it’s a strong character trait you learn and ingrain into your mind. Riches only accentuate a man’s class, it doesn’t define it. But if you take away class from a rich man you will discover he’s just a nuisance. Drama king. He has nothing to lose and nothing to protect so they can drag you down and disgrace you anyday, anytime, anywhere. Shameless people. They are always out to bicker and fight over everything. And they never forget to remind you that they are rich. “He’ll be like, I have money and I can get any girl I want” Uh, please swerve with your gassed up self.
Classy men without money have this confidence that makes a woman love them, esp. if they have prospects. They give you hope, cos you are so attracted to them you sometimes even forget they are broke and can’t really take care of you both. The woman would be willing to spend hers, gladly, for him. Just cos he’s “classy”.
If you have ever listened to Chris Brown ‘’Loyal’’, you would understand that the last thing any woman wants is to date a broke and/or foolish man.
No matter how rich the woman is she still wants a guy that can step up to her financial level. She might not take a dime from you, but she just expects that if she can treat you to breakfast in the executive suite at Transcorp Hotel, you shouldn’t take her to one run-down motel or if she can fly you both somewhere nice to Netflix and chill, you don’t invite her to take a bus on a 5000-mile journey to see you at your run-down shack because she loves you and accepts your measly money situation just cos you can’t step up your financial game.
For the argument, she should love you for you, please answer this, “Would you like to be with a woman who is a financial liability to you? Always looking to collect like you needed a personal tax-collector? Always asking for something, Always ‘I need this, I need that’?’’
Why then do you want to be someone’s liability? You’ll love her, fuck her but can’t support and assist her when she needs it. Keep your dick bruv.
That’s why women get paid for SEX cos they’d rather be fucked and paid than be fucked and broke, and it’s all your fault cos when you see the woman that loves you for real, you always mess up, you always just have to shit in your pants and the stink never washes off.
I personally find it unforgivable that a broke guy will expect to keep a relationship. You’re broke. Focus on getting paid rather than hunt for free fuck under the pretense of “relationship”. – Anonymous
If you want just SEX, say it. You just might be lucky but don’t give mixed signals just for SEX, you either step up and be a classy man or politely clear the room for the man of class whom the woman deserves. Only a classy man (rich or not) knows the art of “no strings attached”.
But how does she get this rich and classy man?
As a woman, to get a rich and classy man you need to have more than sex appeal. Else, you’ll just be a fuck mate. The classy man is operating from an intellectual level so having only the superficial to offer him is a no-no for him. He doesn’t even expect SEX from you. If it happens, fine, if it doesn’t, still fine. The classy man is looking for his intellectual equal
even if she isn’t as rich as he is.
Regardless who made the first move, a woman must exude confidence not attitude, charisma not packaging, intelligence not brain-dead before she can be interesting enough to attract the man.
Naturally beautiful – “Beauty” they say “is in the eyes of the beholder”. The rich and classy man can easily spot a woman who is naturally beautiful and a woman who is “make-up” beautiful. He has original tastes so he will always go for quality rather than quantity. He knows a woman who is beautiful cos he isn’t even interested in the physical to begin with. Yes, good looks is an attraction but he can easily lose interest if a woman is just a dumb-blonde.
Spend time at the spa – pay attention to your skin. When you have clear skin, you really don’t need all the make-up. Look fresh. Your make-up should be as natural or nude as possible, your hair properly arranged, clothing must be elegant. Invest in the quality products if you must roll with the classy and rich man as he would want to take you out to all the posh places and maybe show you off so you must at least look up to his level. Invest in nice, quality clothes that accentuate your body without you desperately trying to look sexy. If you aren’t sure on what to wear, dresses can be a life saver, just wear the pattern, fabric or print that suits your skin tone and where he’s taking you. You must always, always look nice when with a classy guy. Nothing loud or provocative, the woman’s clothing must be elegant, stylish, or fashionable and comfortable.
The rich guy is in a class of his own so he knows how women in his class operate and can easily place which ladder you’re hanging from. Gold-digger? Desperate? No/Low-prospects? Smart? Futuristic? Independent? Lazy? etc The classy guy sees through every façade because he is aware of the effect his material possession has on women so he is waiting to discover if you’re like every other woman he has met or if you are different; so he’ll give you the chance to show yourself. And you wouldn’t even know he’s accessing you to decide if you’re up to his level.
One of the benefits of being rich is being able to afford anything you want which includes the man’s array of women to pick from. The rich and classy guy has been there and done that so if you are looking to get him, your beauty must come from within.
You must have an interesting and amazing personality that glows through you. That person is who he really wants to be with but you first you just be willing to get some class if you have none. Some women are just razz, they are so ghetto, you don’t even want people to spot you with them and it’s silly to mistake trashy for crazy or sexy.
You have to be humbly confident, gracefully crazy and intellectually sexy to get a rich and classy man.
His Fantasy – He wants a woman to call his, which is what you want so you should make yourself his very fantasy come true. Every man is different so you must understand the man you want to use this moves on for it to work effectively. His fantasies can include having a woman that can wear his team jersey and support his club or play video games with him on a lazy day or go with him to the orphanage to give back to society or just read a book together on some nights.
It’s never ever just about SEX with the classy man. His money must have afforded him his sexual desires before he met you so don’t go concluding that all you need is to fuck him to lock him. Ain’t nobody got time for that.
Finger His Mind – Like minds attract so he’ll love to share common interests with you. If he’s a new poach, share his interests. Whatever he tells you likes, accept it, even if it’s stupid. Men feel better when they can comfortable in your presence. If you are more intelligent, better. He’ll never agree to a woman being smarter but if he really likes you he’ll definitely respect you for being able to hold your own intellectually.
If you can teach him things he doesn’t know, awaken his consciousness to things, values, concepts, ideas. He’ll want you around him a lot more, and you know that’s a for sure sign he’s into you. Women should learn to see themselves as more than just sex symbols or tools for sexual satisfaction. If you feel all you have to offer a man is SEX, well he’ll take it and still leave you.
Don’t be docile – Classy men love a challenge and being rich just makes every adventure more creative. Show him how much fun you are by letting him lead the pace (as the man) while arousing and maintaining his interest. Being intelligent means being knowledgeable about a lot of things so the more you know, the more you both have to talk about. Don’t be shy to express yourself, but always do it with respect. Classy people have respect.
Discuss with him on topics you are knowledgeable about. Don’t show-off your knowledge cos you can’t know everything. Just impress him with how humble you are despite being so intelligent. In a discussion on certain topics or subject matter, always gracefully bow out of arguments or debates when you don’t have facts to back your points esp. if he has facts to back his. Jokingly shower him with praise for being smart. It boosts his ego and does well for you too cos when you make him that happy, he’ll defo return the favor.
One step ahead – Always be prepared. Think on behalf of you both. If he approaches you on first meeting, offer him a drink, even if you can’t afford it, the gesture would be a prized memory and would endear you to him. If you’re going out on a first date, contribute by buying a least an orbit gum or bar of mars, snickers or bottled water at least. He knows you might not be as buoyant as he but he’ll know you aren’t hungry or desperate for some cash from him. It’s probably been a while any woman bought him anything.
To get a rich and classy dude, the woman must also be classy in her own right else it would be a waste of her time.