These days, sex in relationships have come to be an important part of development. The reason for this might be because dating and courtship offers an opportunity for both persons in the relationship to get to know one another in almost all areas of life. As such, knowing how sexually good your partner is and how compatible you both are is important.
More so, having a certain level of experience regarding sexual activities is also quite important. This could help you know to a certain level, the different sexual preferences of people and also be able to hold your own when married. Your pre-married life sexual experience can also help you keep yourself in check as you’d probably have seen it after going through the checklist of this article. Here are 9 different sexual experiences everyone should have before they get married.
Sex with a good friend
A lot of heterosexual people always seem to have at least one friend of the opposite sex that whether or not they admit it, they’d like to have sex with. Despite how much you may enjoy being with this person, or how much fun you have with the platonic relationship, the both of you just can’t stop being sexually attracted to each other even though you both know that you both can’t really make a good couple. You know how much they make you laugh especially when you’re not feeling good or you’re emotionally down. You like them a lot and as such why can’t you just want their body once in a while?
Before deciding on settling down with someone you will spend the rest of your life with, throw caution to the wind by getting that friend out of the friend zone for once for temporary fun in the friends with benefits zone. After doing so, you both should agree never to speak of what happened again especially with the person you will be dating on the long term. This is so because because they will surely feel threatened by the person that you will always refer to as just a “close friend”.
Sex with someone who doesn’t speak a word of the same language.
This seems weird, but magical things do happen when you’re completely incapable of expressing or understanding a word of what the other person is saying. Finding yourself in such situation would force you to find new ways of expressing and communicating your actions and affections such as how sexy, beautiful, handsome or intriguing you find them using non-verbal ways. Since the ability to convey your thoughts regarding what you want and need is virtually impossible through verbal means, there would be a level of caution from the onset. From there on, once you’re naked in bed, the language barrier would be broken and your inhibitions would be empowered and that would encourage you to go at each other ravenously.
Sex with a colleague.
Workplace sex is usually considered a no no but a one time off sex wouldn’t do much harm, would it? Truth is a little workplace flirtation would do a lot to help reduce the day to day stress you face while undergoing workplace activities. The innate sexual energy that lies in you needs to be given attention especially if it is channeled towards a colleague you’ve known for years. A time would come when your urges towards them can no longer be repressed and you might need to act on the sexual tension between you and that colleague. If you’re ever going to consider acting on the sexual tension between you and a coworker, it is best you do son while you’re single and if there is any risk at all to bear, it would be a professional one instead of a personal one.
It might be hard to admit, but by the time you become an adult, you would have had a string of failed relationships from your past. At different developmental stages, there were people you once referred to as boyfriend or girlfriend and the bond that previously existed between you and them doesn’t necessarily die completely after you both have moved on. Irrespective of how bad things may have ended between you and them, there are always things that connect you to them such as a gift they gave you, a photograph or a memory of times spent with them. It’s not a bad idea to sleep with someone who you have an idea of how their mind and body works especially if you’re single. There’s a caveat here though, you have to be emotionally stable enough to be able to go back to them, get the sex you want and get back to the state of hating them.
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To be continued….