Sex And Marriage: Five Reasons Do It Before You Say I Do

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Yeah, I know, sex is a big deal and it comes with a lot of responsibilities. No one should be having sex till they can fully be accountable for their actions. With sex, you have to be fully prepared as it can emotionally tie you down with the wrong person, lead to unwanted pregnancy, sexually transmitted diseases and so many other terrible consequences. With all of that, it is enough to say that you should put off sex till you get married but sex before marriage also has its advantages. Listed below are some of the reasons why you should have sex before you get married:

1.     To Find out If You’re Sexually Compatible With Your Partner: sex is very important in every marriage. In fact, it is one of those things that keep a relationship alive. And where there is no chemistry between couples, their sex life is automatically going to be dead. The woman feels like the husband is forcing her against her will and the man feels like he is being starved. Having sex before marriage helps you to discover if he is the kind of man you want to be romantically involved with for the rest of your life. It helps you eliminate, to an extent, the sexual drama that comes in many relationship.

2.      To Discover Sexual Related Problems And Solve It:  there are so many people that get the rudest shocks of their lives on their wedding night. They find out their husband is impotent or the wife has one disease or the other. Having sex before marriage helps you to tackle issues like this way before your wedding night. The fact that you both can solve something as intimate as sexual related health issues means you both have formed a bond really great that will be helpful in the future when you both get married.

3.     For Sexual Experience: it is undeniable that sex before marriage will make you a sexpert; in most cases though and this will help you have a better sex life when you’re married. After all, you would have tried out different sex styles and discovered which you’re comfortable with and which you’re not comfortable with. It becomes easier to learn more about your partner’s sexuality and share experiences together, creating even a better bond between you guys.

4.     It Is Healthy And Natural: sex is very healthy and there’s absolutely nothing wrong with it. In fact, sex is a good way to  keep your immune system humming, boost your libido, lower blood pressure, improve women’s bladder control and it is a good form of exercise to shed some weight. So, sex is an awesome way to keep your body in shape.

5.     People Will Do It Anyway: no matter how much people condemn sex before marriage, so many people still do it. I mean, these days it is almost normal to be sexually active once they “feel” they can handle it. The rate of teenage pregnancies is increasing and so also is the number of people that lose their lives to abortion. So talks, campaigns or sermons won’t stop people from having premarital sex.

I know some may feel these are not strong points enough to have sex before getting hitched. In fact, I’m not advising anybody to. All I’m saying is sex is not a terrible thing. You have the right to explore your sexuality without feeling guilty. If you want to have sex with your partner, make sure it is because you want to and not because you’re pressured to. Once you can take full responsibility for your actions and you’re ready to bear the consequences that is attached with premarital sex, you’re free to have all the sex you want.

Alice Temitope Dako

Alice Temitope Dako

A passionate reader, a photographer of thoughts and an ardent book collector. A nerd in love with the world built by words...

1 comment

  1. My dear, from your article; you really should not be talking about sex because you don’t have enough knowledge to dispense on that topic; no insult here but i would have you know that sex before marriage because of sexual compatibility or sexual experience is just silly and really not the way to go about a topic.. there are other ways to advice or share your real thoughts concerning such matters; its a silly mindset for someone to consider these topic before getting married; i do hope you are, maybe you should share your experience and then i may connect

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