In the part 1 of this article, we talked about some important qualities which men desire in their women. Some of these qualities include love, paying attention to your appearance, not nagging, devotion and loving our friends. We continue in the same vein in this second part of the article as we look at other qualities that make you perfect in our eyes.
Be good in Bed
There’s no way you can be perfect in our eyes if you can’t perform well in bed. We want you to give us better sex than all the exes we’ve had. When the sex is awesome, it keeps us together for a very long time even when we have other issues in the relationship. The key to being good in bed with him is to discover what thrills him. Use this to your full advantage and he’ll always come back for more.
Be a good Cook Well, Or at Least make an effort to be
There’s that age long saying that “the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach” (added with great sex) and this still holds true today. It is true that the women of today lack the energy or will to cook and if you believe cooking isn’t for you, you’re obviously living in fantasy land. It’s not like we expect you to always be in the kitchen, but try and do it more often than not. Even if you’re not a good cook, learn some simple meals and he won’t mind the taste but appreciate the effort more.
Learn to give him gifts as this would make him feel loved. Pamper him and do the things people that love him won’t do. We need to feel that you appreciate the things we do for you. Whenever we do things that you love, value us and make us feel important. This would make is appreciate you more.
Compliment and make him feel like a man
Men are naturally egoistic and we want our egos boosted from the to time. Compliment us on how we turn you on, how attractive we are and how much you desire us. Let us feel in charge of the relationship by doing things our way from time to time. Sometimes allow us win the arguments. By allowing us take the lead, you’d learn things from our perspective and probably enjoy us more.
Be his partner
The thing that makes you perfect for him is that you help him grow and achieve more. We want you to be our partner in progress even as we expect you’d be there when the burden seems overwhelming and give us that support that will make us stay strong. A man wants a woman that will motivate him and always be there no matter where the tide turns.
Have Passion for something
The unpredictability of life is what makes it interesting. The fact that you don’t know if you’d still love him in a year or two makes it more crazy. The truth is people change, you guys might love each other more or less as time passes. That is why it is important you develop a life asides your relationship. It would be good if you have a career and friends you are passionate about outside your relationship as this is bound to make your relationship stronger. This is most important for you both as too much dependence on one another might result in excessive need and fear.
Be Better Than All of His Ex’s
We’d never tell you this but we compare all of our present relationships with that of our past. This usually includes comparisons between our experiences in each of the individual ones we’ve had. This action is mostly subconscious and serves as a template for analysing you. For this reason, you need to be better than all the girls we have dated in the past (that is to say all of them combined). We want you to be smarter, sexier, more intelligent and in all, better than all of our previous experiences.Unconsciously, your man is judging you.
And it is not just about how pretty you are as beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder. Perhaps the reason he is presently dating you is because you are better than what he has had and for him to stay, you’d have to continue to be better than anyone that is likely to have an eye for him. It is likely that you will encounter some problems but it is ideal you strive harder so that he doesn’t miss something from his past and go out looking for it. This might sound a bit harsh, but that is the truth and if you want him for keeps, it is better you strive to give him all and everything he is likely to look for outside.
To be continued…..