5 Signs You’re Not The Only One She’s Sleeping With

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Firstly, I want you to know that the list in this article doesn’t provide concise knowledge regarding you taking a woman on a first date or how she would react to you. It is essential you bear in mind that she’s probably sleeping with another man especially if you’re not providing excellent service in the bedroom. More so, these signs are mostly based on how comfortable the girl in question is with you and can not be used to judge a girl you hardly know or have been on just a few dates with.

Furthermore, if you are the jealous type (or appear to be so), chances are she won’t be comfortable with sharing her innermost secrets with you as she is not sure what your reactions would be like of you find out that she’s been with someone else. In this way, her actions can be attributed to your behaviour rather than her love for another man’s penis.

Anyways, it all depends on whether you care enough about her and the relationship. If you’re not looking for a long term relationship or you just want to score her and move on. This might sound harsh but that is the reality of the times we find ourselves in even as there are numerous options available in the pool of dating. Added with a level of acceptance of female promiscuity especially by certain feminists then you can see why it is justified to know the truth about who else she’s sleeping with.

Have it at the back of your mind that some women are manipulative and astounding liars. Sometimes they do things just to throw you off and at other times, they are caught up within themselves and those signs may give a wrong impression.

The Phone Is Face Down
If you find out that her phone is placed far down whenever you’re with her, she’s probably hooking up with another dude. Why do you think a lady would have her phone face down whenever she’s with you? She’s obviously hiding something and what do you think she’d want to hide from the man she’s dating? Of course it’s an instant messaging notification, text message or call from a guy she’s wiTh.

She Checks, But Does Not Respond To Certain Texts
Almost all girls engage in some form of teasing on their phones with their friends. They enjoy sending messages to each other and replying instantly. Notice when you’re with her, how she smiles and responds to her girlfriends messages. Now think of when she gets a notification and fails to respond to it. It’s obviously a guy. This sign is a bit tricky given the fact that girls will have lots of guys calling and texting them and as such difficult to assess. But if she’s always checking her messages and fails to respond to them, she’s probably doing so cause it’s from a person she doesn’t want you to know about.

Denying you the honeypot
Most girls won’t want you to give them cunnilingus when it’s less than a day that another guys penis was in there. Of course, there are times when they are just not in the mood for it or they’ve not had their baths in hours or she feels her period is almost here. Despite how conniving women may be, they have a subtle respect for their regular guys and wouldn’t want his mouth where another guy’s stick has been.
Also, when she suddenly starts giving you unexpected blowjobs which she previously didn’t, know that she feels guilty that she’s doing same to some other guy. If she refuses you sex at times, it could be she just recently made out with someone else on the same day. It’s most important to get girls to be free and open with you and I guarantee that you’d be shocked at what you discover. Some of them have no problems sleeping with more than one guy on the same day or making out with other girls as much as they do with you.

Her “Friend” Is neither male or female
When she starts telling you about a friend that she has plans with without explicitly stating if it’s a man or woman, chances are the so called friend is a dude. This one is self-explanatory. Girls that are more deceptive in nature would rather completely withhold information from you than lying about who the friend is.

The Surprise Shave
If you have had surprise sex with her and perhaps a couple of times when she wasn’t shaved and you discover her to be randomly shaved all of a sudden, she is probably looking forward to sex from someone else. This is even more true if she’s shaved on a day she’s not expected to see you.

Lastly, remember these signs are not perfect and they do not completely tell if she’s with someone else but are definitely things you should be on the lookout for. Nowadays, it is best to think she’s sleeping with some other guy until the time you’re proven wrong.



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  1. Not to be offensive, but this article is pathetic. The person who wrote this honestly needs therapy. He clearly has trust issues. “…it’s best to think she’s sleeping with some other guy until the time you’re proven wrong.” – unbelievable! Any one of the crap you listed as “signs” could mean anything. But what’s the point, since the guy should already assume I’m cheating because I put my phone facedown or shaved spontaneously!

  2. This is the worst article i have ever truly read for it is full of less than juvenile unfounded and baseless assumptions, and undeserved insults to women. For peats sakes, women love more than penis and there is this sense that the writer tries to portray about understanding of women and the levels of promisquity that they endulge in…. hmmm , does this amateur truly understand the rate of promisquity amongst men like him or of the male gender?? , from the foolishness , paronoia he depicted, the answer would be NO. Would this idiot really want his mom, sisters or friends of any gender to read this garbage ,and can the editor of this forum please take this down?? Wao or am i missing something here?, i would address his points individually but will leave that for other well reasoned individuals even in lagos to address. …OMG!

  3. I find it hard to believe that one would on a weeknight rather go out until 11 o’clock at night rather than going getting the kids and going home to her husband. also when planning things without your mate and then telling them at the last minute and get away for a week or two and the recent trying to be too sexy, for who?

  4. I don’t know for certain but when someone changes up schedule for instance letting you go to work in the morning and then they will be taking off before you get home so that way it will only be you with your kids while she’s gone away at night will come in in the wee hours of the morning only to get in the shower and then go to sleep somewhere else in the house. strange isn’t it

  5. only gets worse will find someone to dump the kids off on so this you can do what she wants to do has even made it clear that she’s flirtatious and proved it a couple of nights ago horse playing wrestling around with a guy and afterwards are only reply was that’s like my brother.last night gets off of work to go hang out with her sisters for a couple hours comes home to get dressed to go out until 4 in the morning and next weekend is her birthday weekend

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