“Various sex techniques are important but they don’t mean much without a deep understanding of what makes your woman turned on.”
- UNDERSTAND YOUR WOMAN
Many men today don’t take time to figure what it is that their ladies really want. They assume sex is like a pair of socks or face cap or all such items that have the ‘one size fits all’ tag. Wrong! For you to score those awesome points in bed, you need to know your lady in and out. Take time to ask her about things that turn her on and find fun ways to make these things come alive.
There are different strokes for different folks. Some ladies get turned on by listening to Rock Music, others get turned on by having mild liquor, chocolate and stuff. Some others are turned on by beards and facial hair, others by the smell of male cologne and bla bla. The onus is on you to discover her deepest fantasies and go right on to make those happen.
- ORAL SEX IS MAGICAL
Men should master the act of giving their women a proper good sexual feeling by giving ‘the head’. Bite gently, lick softly, and penetrate the honey pot with the tongue if you desire to get the bell in her head ringing.
- FOCUS ON HER BOOBS
However good your sex game is the moment you forget to stimulate your woman’s breasts and nipples, you stand to lose out on the core of things. Take your time to work her body, let your hands and tongue be active as crazy. Even when you get under and penetrate, still maintain contact with the lofty pair of boobs; cup them, squeeze mildly and tickle the nipples and be sure to get her to a faster, bigger orgasm.
- TALK DIRTY RAW & DIRTY WITH HER
I doubt this requires any explanations for all the grown folks out there. If in doubt, take a few shots of your favorite liquor and let things take a natural order…
- FIND AND TICKLE HER G-SPOT
Doggy style is your best bet to hitting her G-spot. But then again there’s a new approach to this: Get her to lower herself on her elbows instead of her palms, then thrust in with gentle strokes initially; and then work it into a faster, rhythmic penetration. As you get into her like this, you are certain to hit and stimulate the G-spot.
- GENTLY BITE HER EAR AND NECK
Her ears and the neck regions beneath them can be super sensitive, so if you know how to nibble on these parts you are sure to get her extra in the zone, and on your way to a great orgasm.
- TAKE THE LEAD
Many men don’t understand that the phrase ‘ladies first’ doesn’t apply in all aspects of life, especially in between the sheets. This is Africa, how do you expect a lady to make the first move when as a society we have all the many stereotypes within us? Not gonna happen! You don’t want the impression that your woman is a whore, neither does she want to come off as one; so the simple thing is get in the driver’s seat and steer the vessel. Easy as ABC!
Women like to be pampered, forget all that feminism talk you hear on twitter but they really intend for their men to take ABSOLUTE control of things, especially in bed. So, initiate the idea; make the first moves, put your mouth here and there, take her hands and slide them in and out of places, unbutton this, unzip that and boom! You already know.
- TEASE HER BEFORE THE REAL DEAL
It is often said that the anticipation of something is better than actually getting it. Think of when you were saving for your first car, your first gold necklace, your first trip abroad and all that stuff. Do you remember how it felt as you neared your target? Do you remember how it made you sleepless during the night till you finally achieved it and it didn’t mean so much anymore? Exactly. That’s how sex also feels. In truth, chances are many guys will never be able to get their ladies into great, multiple orgasms. But then again the feeling of getting her mind build into pleasurable fantasies can be really great for you and could serve as a catalyst for great sex.
- BE PRESENT & EXPLORE POSITIONS
Don’t just take off her clothes and do the pedestrian stuff every other day. Nah. In popular Twitter parlance, not every time do missionary, sometimes have quickie in the kitchen or in the car with seat reclined, AC and windows up. Banging!
- READ THIS ALL OVER AGAIN
Now, go out there and have an amazeball ‘sexperience’. Also, if you know anything we have omitted here, feel free to drop us a comment or two. Enjoy!
By Jide Lloyd