After your flirty dinner date, while enjoying a glass of chilled red wine and watching the newest episode of ‘Being MaryJane’ , you and your man finally decides to take it to the next step BUT his penis does not respond to that invitation.
This can be very embarrassing for any guy but it can also be a tough situation for you to handle too. When such issues arises, your man expects you to come to his rescue and help him navigate the situation.
Here are the top 3 tips on how to help him get it up!
DO NOT ASK IF IT HAS HAPPENED BEFORE
This question is the most tempting at such time but there is really no reason to ask. That question only makes him feel less of a man and it won’t solve resolve the situation at hand. Reminding Him about his in-capabilities can only get him off not up.
DON’T MAKE IT ALL ABOUT YOU
Erectile dysfunction has nothing to do with you as his partner. No matter how much the thoughts of wanting you fills his mind, it’s not enough reason to get his penis hard.
MAKE IT CLEAR YOU WANT TO HELP
Instead of worrying and asking questions about what’s wrong, talk to him about what you intend to do or should be doing in order to fix the situation. That’s the best thing a good partner can do to save the situation. If you are a bit adventurous, feel free to suggest a blow job.