Secrets Men Hide From Their Women

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Not like any of these things would hurt you if you knew, really. Its just that men love to keep secrets and these ones might just get misinterpreted if you knew them. Plus, ignorance is better sometimes, innit?

But again, who wouldn’t like a trip into her man’s mind once in a while?

Consider this article a sneak peek into your man’s innermost thoughts. Thank me later.

He still watches porn

Maybe not all the time, maybe he is not an addict. But he watches porn and he enjoys it and he does this once in a while. Thing is he won’t let you know so you don’t think for some reason he prefers the woman in the video to you or that he wants you to go all the way like her. But he enjoys watching it all the same.

And he wouldn’t mind for you both to see it together sometime, I mean to put you in the mood if you’re the kind that gets turned on by porn. But hey, don’t count on him ever suggesting that sha.

He checks out other women


I mean, Yvonne Nelson isn’t his favorite actress because she has terrific acting skills, she is his fave because of that oh so toned abs! Tiwa Savage isn’t his best female artiste because she owns everything she sings, but because she gives us all a sneak peek of her lady business every once in a while.

He is not so excited about Mercy Johnson and Toolz’ diction but that booty deserves to be checked out every once in a while.

Of course this doesn’t mean he would replace them with you if he has the chance. It only means he checks hot women out the way you love Flavor when he forgets to wear doesn’t wear his shirts and ogle at John Dumelo when he appears on screen.

But he wouldn’t let you know this because he knows he might be suspended from getting boyfriend/husband benefits for a while, so he would keep this piece of information from you.

He cringes at the amount of make up you use

Not like he minds you getting dolled up and looking all glam, its just that he wishes you wouldn’t use that much lipstick or that much eyeshadow. Yes, he loves make up, he just doesn’t love that much make up.

And he knows mentioning this might hurt your feelings and that is why he would keep this secret for as long as you stay his.

He likes his free time alone

So when you have to hang with the girls, he tells you he would miss you and wishes you’d stay? Lies.

He is really going to miss you, that’s for real but he doesn’t wish you’d stay.

Men cherish the time they get alone to be boys every once in a while and so would not mind for you to give him that time every once in a while.

He wants the compliment as much you do

Most women assume they are the only ones who need to be told they look beautiful. But how about the man you are stepping out with? You think he wouldn’t want to be told how dapper he looks in that suit? How great he looks with you and how lucky you are to be the lady taking him out?

Men long for compliments sometimes and they might not tell you because men don’t roll like that, but they would really appreciate it if you mentioned once in a while.

He gets nervous about sex too

You are not the only one wondering if you look sexy enough for him when you undress, he has his insecurities also and he is hoping that he pleases you and that if he doesn’t even beat the best you ever had, that he ranks up there with the best somehow. He doesn’t want to come early, especially if this is his first time and he doesn’t want you to feel like it was horrible.

Yes, men get pretty nervous about these things too.

He does not want to lose you

No, you are not the only one who doesn’t want to lose him. He doesn’t too. And he might not show it like you show yours, but deep down, he is hoping you would never ever walk out on what you guys share.



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