How to Know Your Girlfriend is Not Happy

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Because being happy in a relationship is paramount.

Sometimes, we lose track of a lot of things happening around us and then we don’t see the most important things happening right under our noses.

But with a little help, we can see if the person we care the most about is unhappy and if we can, we would fix it.

Guys, here are ways to know your girl is not happy.

SHE WITHDRAWS TO HERSELF EVERY TIME

If your woman is the bubbly/zesty type, then it would be easier to know when she is not happy. She would simply withdraw into herself and be dull during times you expect her to be excited.

Something must happen for someone to go from bright to dull. If she begins to act this way, you can find out what’s wrong.

SHE SIMPLY DOES NOT WANT TO TALK

And this happens all the time these days. She does not want to talk no matter what it is you are discussing and she agrees to whatever you might have said if you try to understand why she is this way.

A happy person would not keep mute all the time especially with the one they love and are with.

SHE IS NOT ATTENTIVE

…And she used to be. But these days, she is not attentive to you or your needs or anything at all. In fact she does not seem to care if anything happens to you. A happy person cares about everything and everyone around them, if she is beginning to act this way it might be that she is not happy about something.

YOU NEVER LAUGH TOGETHER ANYMORE

Laughter and happiness go together. If she never laughs anymore, doesn’t seem to even find anything remotely funny, she might be very unhappy and you might need to find out at this point what the problem is.

YOU SHOULD TALK TO HER

The best way to know someone is unhappy is when you talk to them and ask what the problem might be. You might misunderstand or misread any of the above behaviors but if you ask and you get a positive answer then you can find out if it is the relationship that is making them unhappy or something else.

Either ways, you can fix what is wrong since you already have the diagnosis.

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tomilola

Content Writer|Screenwriter|Coke Addict|Feminist|Amala Activist|Future Hero. Twitter&Instagram @Tomilola_coco

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