I was talking with my friend the other day and we talked about different things including some of our fantasies; sexually and not. It was so amazing to find out that there were so many people out there living to fulfill one fantasy or the other, hopefully before they grow too old for it. I started thinking about my own fantasies and discovered I’ve practically done most of the things except sexually. It was a bit weird to think about what I wanted to do sexually and how I want it done. I got my phone and started writing them down; maybe I will show them to my next boyfriend and we will do something about it. I read through it when I was done and literarily laughed my ass out. Maybe I was being crazy or just being adventurous but really, I will like to explore all my fantasies before I am too grey for it.
These are my 5 top sexual fantasies; who knows, I may be writing for someone out there too *winks*
#1. Sex Trip: I had fantasised about this for a very long time now. Travel round the country; just me and my boo. We’ll move from place to place and for every peculiar historical landmark we see, we park our car at a safe distance from people and have hot steamy sex at the back of the car. It will be so much fun because some people may walk past as us and have absolutely no clue what we are doing there because we will have dark glasses. I like living a bit on the edge and doing reckless things knowing that I can get away with it. It makes it all worthy that I can have sex outside and see people walk by without them seeing what’s going on inside. If we don’t have tinted glasses or the boo is not up to it, we can go to an isolated place at night and have the sex at the back of the car or maybe on the booth of the car.
#2. Secret Sex On A Night Out With Friends And Family: okay, this one may seem a little bit crazy but I bet it will be so much fun too. Like, I’ll go out with my boo and our friends and family. We will decide to go chill in one of these really cool, fancy restaurants, just to catch up on old times and what we’ve been missing. In between discussion, we’ll get up almost simultaneously and take excuse to go the toilet or something. Then, we’ll find a really nice, cozy place we can hide for a quickie (probably the toilet) and then we come outside at different times. Our family and friends will have no idea what we just did. It will be our own very private secret tucked somewhere in our dirty little black book.
#3. Strip Tease: this may sound a bit silly but I started checking out videos on how to strip perfectly with the pole and all. It’s not entirely hard and I’m willing to learn how to twirl, twerk, bounce my ass, make my ass clap like a professional just for my boo. It will crazy to give him all the package right there in our room. Just me, him, the pole, loud sensual music and a bottle of french cognac or whiskey. I plan to actually do this even after babies. I’ll go to the gym, take more dance classes for my man.
#4. Bondage Sex: since the days of fifty shades of grey, I’ve fantasized about this. We will use sorts of toys we can get and experiment with them. I’m not a fan of sex toys and masturbation but for I would not mind for just that moment. It will be so interesting to act out all the sex scenes in the novel with my boo.
#5. Costume/Role-Playing Sex: I could act nurse, teacher, air hostess, naïve student etc, just to spice things up. It’s my fantasy to just dress up as one of these people and surprise the boo. As long as he plays along with the role (which I’m sure he would), it will be as sexciting as imagined. There are so many disney/movie characters that I want to act as while planning costume sex. We could flip sides and ask him to dress as a fireman, policeman, hunter or a doctor.
I know some of you are looking at me like a bad girl but who cares? We all have at least one fantasy and to me, it is necessary. It spices things up with your boo especially when you feel like the relationship, marriage is becoming boring. Don’t be shy or scared, act out your fantasies (but with the right person).