Phew: Tina of Mary Mary caught her husband in bed with her friend

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June Edition of Ebony Magazine spotlights Tina, one of the Mary Mary (with Red Hair) sisters and her confession over her husband’s alleged infidelity to her. She also revealed that she had tried to stab her husband.

She stated that her husband cheated on her with a family friend and had been doing so for two years but was just able to confess to it.

Unable to contain it anymore, she posted on Facebook yesterday:

Hi fans and friends. It’s Tina. I hope all of you are well and I thank you for all the love and support you’ve shown my sister and I over the years.

Well, Im actually writing you on behalf of my husband Teddy and I. I’m assuming that many of you have seen or heard about our article in Ebony that discussed the challenges of overcoming infidelity in our marriage. Well since the article, the challenges have worsened. My hope turned into hopelessness & despair and I became unwilling to forgive and fight, until God showed me myself.

My husband’s struggle, was with sexual immorality BUT I have struggled with anger, rage, unforgiveness, pride, just to name a few, for over 2 decades. The devil wanted to use strongholds that took hold of our lives in our childhood, to remain and destroy us as adult. So now instead of being mad at each other we’re mad at the devil and we’re ready to fight.

Today we began a 30 day fast (May 24th-June 22nd) for complete deliverance & restoration. If u are able to, please fast and/or pray daily that God would answer our prayer and give us a deeper love & commitment to him and to each other. We believe he still works miracles and he can give us the greatest marriage we could have ever imagined. We can pray alone BUT your prayers will certainly help.

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  1. Whatever you do you.ll comyinually stand and know that the victory is yours and know that the word of God declares whatever God had joined together let no man put assunder he hsd you and your husband you are not alone after the shame comes the exhaltation hold uour head up high you win im praying well you sing harder for the lord because aint and i say aint nobody mad but the devil you blessed one much love.

  2. i think she should leave him 2 years the bible clearly states the only way to leave your husband or wife is by cheating only is she crazy!

    1. Thank you so much for stating this Karen. The Bible does state that infidelity is the only reason a couple should divorce. Plain and simple.

  3. The devil is a liar, we all know, the closer we get to god, or do his work the devil will always try to seek and destroy. Be blessed continue to do gods work. Whether u stay or leave I enjoys the show and music. Make a joyful noise unto the lord. Ms Tina, I see you are a strong woman and I know you know peoples opions are just that opinions. Continue to do gods work. GO GET YA BLESSINGS. A SISTER IN CHRIST!!!!!


    1. Ok, DUMMY up people!!! The bible also mentions wolves in sheep’s clothing. Sometimes a mate can come as a sheep, but be the likeness of a wolf. Use the strength of GOD to get out of a bad situation and heal and move on. Do not be cowards and falsely use the indoctrination of the bible-to cover it up! Remember what Malcom X said? If the devil fools you by sending one of his deciples into your life- WAKE UP!! And get to safety. The Lord will heal you and send you a good man who will be faithful. If only you will trust in HIM.

  5. Tina, Tina, Tina. The man did you wrong, all of a sudden he’ s sorry. Trust me, if you hadn’t caught him, he would still be cheating on you. He wasn’t sorry when he wasn’t being faithful, He’s just sorry that he got caught. Hmm, and this is a man if God and family , ummm, smh.

    Good luck boo, but, don’t be surprised if he cheats or lies again. Keep forgiving for the sake of the Lord. I’m sure God does not condone ongoing liars and cheaters. Two yrs Tina, God bless you and your children. Know this, you nor your children were in his thoughts when he was deceiving you.

  6. Mrs. Tina I’m so sorry to hear that I watch your show every time it comes on. And it makes me wont to cry just to see you hurt in such a way because I know you are a good wife and mother, so may god help you get threw this terrible tragedy and I will also keep you and your family in my prayers.

  7. So you know that you are an angry, aggressive person to your manager, but your soul mate, partner, husband can disrespect you and all’s well??? come on!!! Really sorry your had to see your husband for the real person he is, remember when people show you who you are…and you thought goo goo mans wan not right for her.

  8. Ms tina just contuine to be strong and remember everyone has an option which you have and people have their opinion and just that an opinion but if they were in your shoes they will for sure choose their option and not listen to their own opinion only you know what’s best for you and your family and my prayers are with you and your kids the only true ones that MATTERS I’ve been where you are god bless you baby

  9. Ms Karen and ms Tiffany so it’s ok if he beats you black and blue puts you intensive care are maybe on life support cheating is only reason for divorce OH OKAY WOW I pray for your marriage as if you are god bless you as well

  10. I see so many women ( I assume are black) leaving comments about how it’s a woman’s fault if her man cheats, and ohhh Tina pray for your marriage. REALLY people?! It’s no wonder HIV and AIDS are highest in the black race. I am black too, but you women just can’t seem to get enough of suffering at the hands of your men. I don’t even date black men anymore-if Lord Jesus can show so much love for me and I accept, I will never dishonor that sacrifice that was made for us by allowing some man to degrade and mistreat me. Uh, uh! You women need to get out into the world and start hanging with educated Russians, Italians, Germans, Asians, etc. Whatever it takes so that you can learn to love yourselves better than you have been.

    1. yes I am black too. just for you to no that being black has nothing to do with it white Asians all type of people goes through these situations . and I disagree about it being our fault no you have it twisted it is the person fault who ever does the cheating you can be the most attractive women they do not care .

  11. The cheating, yes, can happen to ANYONE. What I am referring to is how a whole lot of OUR women seem to think they are so unworthy that they are at fault when their men disrespect them by cheating. They are like slaves in that they believe they should have no right to speak their minds or lead their households. Our women are dying of AIDS because of this ignorance. Tina said that she was selfish and ran her man to those other women. An intelligent women (not saying she isn’t) would have seen that clearly the man is a wolf in sheep’s clothing and that HE was selfish. The reality is-they were unequally yoked. She was about striving and taking care of her responsibilities to her children and husband and his ass was about humping and bumping and grinding whores.

  12. Yes, anyone can experience this. Never said they could not. How WE respond-is appalling. Continuing to stay with a man who clearly does not love a woman, sets a bad example to the daughters of that marriage by sending them a message early on that they are unworthy of a blessed joyful marriage. A man should FEAR to step out and disrespect his wife. If Teddy can do so without care for the consequences, then Tina is in DANGER of getting sick or worse yet, being further embarrassed when Teddy decides to get one pregnant and run off taking half of Tina’s hard earnings to the next hoe. That is what I meant when I said OUR women take stuff like this too faintly. You can stay and pray-or you can get out of it and be safe and have FAITH that GOD will send a man so wonderful, he will blow Ted boy out of the water. Tina will wonder why she ever even cried over this ridiculous man.

  13. Black men learn from each other how to treat women. When they see Ted boy getting away with disrespecting a good woman, many of the men watching will use that as an excuse to go out and do the same. People just think they can do whatever they want to hurt others so long as they show up in the Lord’s house on Sundays. And so long as they can quote scriptures. Well, the devil knows scriptures too! It is not the scriptures you’ve memorized that make you a good soul-it is actually BEING a good soul-that makes you a good soul. None of us are perfect-but we can at the least be good to one another. Not Tina-but Ted boy!

  14. dear tina hi I am so sorry that you are going thru so much pain but remember trouble do not last always joy will come ireally understand because I went thru it now he has taken sick on me and I have to take care of him an I have so much anger in me I don’t know what to do but pray an cry but whole your head up high an keep your hand in gods unchanging hand you an teddy

  15. If you put yourself in Tina’s situation, she stated that she was a part of the problem. I’m not taking anyone side in this situation, because I know that God can fix anything on our lives. It seems as if Tina made her decision, based upon the part that she played in the marriage, her faith, and the love that she has for her husband. We all go through things in our relationships, and marriages, you should never make a decision based upon your emotions. I wish Tina and Teddy, nothing but Blessings and Happiness in their marriage.

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