For most women, reaching orgasm during sex is not exactly an easy thing to do. Some women have never reached orgasm during sexual intercourse and others rarely do.
As much as a lot of women blame themselves for this situation, it is not their problem at all. Studies and books on successful sexual lives have proved that women have less orgasms than men due to a lot of varying reasons, which ranges from the sexual position to the things done during intercourse by both parties.
This goes to say that as much as men easily reach sexual climax, women aren’t built that way and it is very okay to not reach orgasm every other time. It is a natural situation.
Most women however are not pleased with this because some of them want to experience the feeling, some need to make their partners know that they are indeed enjoying the sex and it is just simply frustrating for some not to “cum”.
Some of the ways women can easily reach orgasm however includes; Masturbation and/ sexual position.
Women who are experienced DYIs know how to fix the vibrator/dildo and how to channel them to pleasure themselves. They know how to orgasm with these sexual toys and what to do to get them there.
These type of women already have half their problems solved because next time they have sex with their partners, they can borrow tips from their DIY sessions and tell their partners where to touch. This would stimulate them and allow them climax.
Another help towards easy climax is the clitoris. Since the clitoris is the most sensitive part of the Vagina and the part that stimulates an easy climax, taking it into consideration might help in your quest on reaching climax easily.
Let your partner stroke the climax, guide him when he’s doing it so he can know how to do it well and how it would yield results. He could do this while thrusting into you, this would stimulate you and guide you to an easy climax.
Some sexual positions that you can also try which would make climax happen or boost the chances includes;
The CAT is the coital adjusted technique. Basically this is a face-to-face position, but the man ‘rides much higher’ than he would in the missionary position so that his shoulders and head are about six inches higher up the bed than normal.
What this means is that his penis doesn’t go all the way into the vagina. Instead, the stem or root of it is pulled hard against the clitoris – producing great sensations in that all-important little organ.
The other difference is that instead of taking his weight on his elbows, the man should simply let his bulk slump onto his partner’s upper chest.
2. The free as air position where The man lies down on his back. The woman faces the other way and sits down on his penis. Then, in her own time, she gradually lowers herself so that – with his penis inside her – her back is lying fully outstretched on the front of his body.
The woman can feel genuinely weightless and free-as-air – which is quite a novel sensation. Another bonus is that either partner can touch the clitoris easily. So it’s different and fun – and usually a great time is had by all.
3. The Spoon position Finally, ‘the spoons’.
This is the position where you lie on your side and your man lies curled up round your bottom (like spoons in a drawer) and penetrates you from behind.
Lots of women like this, though not all of them find it easy to orgasm on their sides. But the great advantage here is that either partner can reach round and rub the clitoris. Also, neither of you is having to take the weight of the other.
However, have in mind that there’s no right or wrong position to have sex or reach orgasm. You have to find that which works for you.