Coco’s Chronicles: The Pussy Struggle – Part 2

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Hey guys, I started the article – The Pussy Struggle last week by sharing Reanne and Enitan‘s experiences. This week, I would be sharing that of Trish and another friend – Ronke.

Giselle says she can’t remember having this situation and Ronke said it was okay to share hers instead.

I got a lot of mixed responses from the guys especially and most of them claim it is always the girl’s fault. Why show up in the Lion’s den and expect a peaceful stay, they say? Is that a good enough excuse to rip off the beautiful clothes some of us get from shops and scuupng.com (BTW, they have some wonderful items on sale at the moment …ok I digress).

Girls, do you agree that it’s always our fault?

Anyway, while you think of an answer to that, let’s dive into the juicy experiences Trish and Ronke shared with me i.e. their own Pussy Struggle.

Let’s start with Trish,

“I met this guy at the beach and we got talking. He seemed cool and so we exchanged numbers and gradually started to build a friendship. I was in my second year in school then and so we never really saw in person. The larger part of the relationship was based on the phone. Note, I wasn’t interested in him and I didn’t show him any form of interest. He wasn’t my type of guy and friendship was at best, the only type of relationship, we were ever going to have”

Trish and her friend became really good friends and one day while she was on school break, he called and she told him she was bored. He invited her over.

This was her latest cool friend rescuing her from the terrible jaws of boredom, Halleluyah! She obliged.

Her friend told her there was a party he would like her to attend with him and she would have to pass the night at his.

I declined because I didn’t really like the idea of spending the night at a guy’s place. A guy I wasn’t dating and who wasn’t my brother, but he convinced me it wasn’t a bad idea, especially since we had been constant friends for about four months”

Trish finally agreed.

I just thought, we’ll rock the party till 5am and he would drop me back at mine and everything would be fine. I thought wrong”

Her friend came to pick her around 8pm and they went to have dinner and drinks first then they headed to this party around 11pm.

The party was boooring! I didn’t have fun at all. In fact, I wanted to leave almost as soon as we got there. We left earlier than 5am. Of course who would stay? It was duller than Old people’s home and guests started to leave around 2am. We left around 2.30am and I’m sure if we had stayed an extra second we would have helped them pack the chairs”

8-| Ladies, watch out for men like this one! If only Trish had known that the guy was up to no good. They headed back to his and as exhausted as she was, all Trish wanted to do was rest her head on a pillow and have a peaceful sleep.

I didn’t want to give room for touching and sex, so I refused his offer to share his bed and went to sleep on the couch. Not too long after this, I felt his hands on my body. He had left his room to come and touch me! He wanted to have sex!”

Trish politely refused but he kept begging her. She was mad and she fought tooth and nail to keep his hands off her all night. According to her, he stopped at some point and then continued again.

As early as 5am, I was at the bus stop. Thank God his door only had bolts on them and I held vex money. I got the next available cab and headed home. He called and called, then sent an SMS apologising. He said I should have at least allowed him to drop me. Like I care! I stopped picking his calls before he packed his friends to rape me!”

Funny how they apologise after, right?

Here is Ronke‘s own Pussy Struggle

It was back in school and I had this business deal with this guy. He was a friend and he supplied me perfumes, which I helped him sell in school. Our relationship was more of business and I usually went to his place in the mornings with at least one friend of mine. I never went alone”

Unknown to Ronke, the guy was waiting for the day she would come alone.

There was this day I had to go see him alone though. All my close female friends had gone for one exam or the other, so I decided to do the usual quick visit alone. When I got there, he offered me a drink and asked that we talk and all that, but I asked him to go straight to business and give me what I had come for. I had things to do”

Then the strangest thing happened; the guy closed the door and locked it. Then he began to make confessions of how he had always fancied her!

He begged me for a kiss and when I declined he started rough handling me! And if you see this guy’s muscles ehn…I fought and fought!”

When she realised she was losing the battle, she obliged him and decided to give him the kiss he was so animalistic about. Then he told her “in fact, I would fuck you” 😮

Ronke continued to fight him off but he wouldn’t stop. He was stronger than her and he tore her clothes in the process. Soon enough people began to gather outside the apartment.

See the scene you are creating outside!” He said with so much rage. Then he opened the door.

I ran out with my torn clothes! I didn’t care about the scene or the two dogs he had in the compound! I ran from this demented man! He of course pinged later to ask why I ran out naked!”

SMH for guys out there who do this. I doubt there is a sensible reason for all of this. It’s absolutely wrong. Ronke’s now contemplating taking the guy to court for attempted rape and is currently discussing it with a lawyer.

By the way, Ronke‘s friend’s bb name is “Dengepose clothing“; Buahahaha!!! no wonder abi? Never trust guys with ridiculous/questionable bb names people!

Coco

Coco

I’m a totally simple, sweet, funny down to earth girl. Extremely fun and nothing of an introvert. I’m so much into writing, I don’t have enough space left in my heart to love something else. I’m addictive and you’re not likely to let go once you know me. Twitter handle, @tomilola_coco

17 comments

  1. This stories arent pussy struggles …they are actually attempted rape cases and should be treated as such. Ronke is right to want to take him to court.

    It’s very nice for Men to keep saying her NO means YES, but the truth is, there are other ways to make a girl have sex with u.

    Put her in the mood, put the a/c on full blast and have only thin bedsheets, she’ll snoggle up 2 u in no time.

    Otherwise, go to Sanusi Fanuwa and pay a hooker or go over to OSU, Madonna or Babcock where sex is given for free

    Final words – PUSSY STRUGGLE = ATTEMPTED RAPE …Let’s treat it as such

  2. God will continue to av mercy on dis generation! Is it a crime to visit a guy without no strings attached or wat? Can’t u visit someone without having someone go with u? Can’t we females be friends wt a guy without sex? So many questions!D oda time a frnd told me how she was about to be raped bcos d guy said she could not eat his 2 indomie and a boiled egg just like dat without sex,if not for 4 d timely intervention of neighbours ! Na wa o! God will save someone, Ronke shud take d case to d next level and he shud be prosecuted! And to evry oda babes out dere,dat adventure is not worth it,dat male friend might just be a pretentious baStard.. May God protect and guide us all. Amennnnnn

  3. I had such an event, bt unfortunately 4 me no one gathered outside d apartement nd my strength failed me, i cldnt fight d animal anymore and he raped me. He ws a guy I considerd a friend and I had never expressd intrst in nd neither had he. And I really tink ronke shld press charges 4 those of us that couldn’t. Its sad dat guys still dnt get dat a girls NO really is NO nd not a yes in disguise.

  4. It is really sad,coz I am d lady in question buh I thank God I was able to scream,it save me a lot afta d bruises and torn clothes. Buh really,wot is it bou dis sex fn? It is jst sex and even if u wona ave sex,like sum1 commented,put her in d mood. I see d dude around feeling all fly and all,no1 knows d kinda monster he really is. Plz ladies out there,let’s try to avoid situations like dis,not all dudes can be trusted whr sex is concerned,alwaiz go wv α friend and don’t stay d 9t if u r not prepared 4sex.it is well wv us all.

  5. Its sad to start with, but this story sounds cooked and there should be a motive behind it. Rather than spoil the guy’s name “DENGEPOSE” maybe Ronke should walk up to him or sorry heiress lama which is which , any other names available ? Do you still sell perfumes cos i’ve been trying to get this perfume em em em “CURVE” 100ml , don’t be scared i’ll not rough U up but i’m sure i’ll have sex with U if i want to.

  6. I’m d guy in question.I dint rape u oh.I dint tear ur cloths and not a soul gathered around my house and at dat time I had a dog and not dogs.we left d house together and u were well dressed.u came to my house february 3 2010 and u neva slept in ma house.we only went out d evenin before to bigtreat and got u snacks.u left wiv ur friend to sleep over dia.I came to pick u up wiv a friend d next mornin.wen u came to my house was 3years ago,u dint hav a bb.so wn did I ping u,we saw early dis year wen I went to c ma hommie at d hospital and dats wia I got ur pin.u ve been to my place 3ce.1st wiv 4friends.2nd wiv ur friend and ma friend.makes it 4of us.3rd time is dat morning.dis people never die oh.there can b references if dia is need.so where and wen did u sleep over or wen did I take u to those places u talked about.can u remember d 1st day I saw u at my place.u better stop sayin rubbish and let d sleepin dog sleep jeje.I’m too busy for all dis shit. I for sue u.thank God people dey involved and no b only me dey d trip.try remove dis rubbish and stop attachin fucked up importance to a trifle.pls. No time.abeg u in d name of God to pls free me oh.I go fast for ur sake oh and I go go camp for ur matta oh.pls correct dis publication.abeg u.I no find am funny at all.dis na my 2nd attempted rape accusation and I no dig am.pls stop am.God bless u

  7. Dis pussy struggle tins happen for real and its on d increase daily. Lemme share my own experience. I went to see dis guy who until day day had been a friend, not a bf, not even a toaster oh. As soon as I got to his place, he started toastin speech oh, but I turned him down saying we were better off as friends. He then began pep talk and advice oh! Sayin dat nxt time if I don’t wanna date a guy, I shouldt glo to his place ‘cos he could rape me. I den said I wanted to go, he said no oh. Before I go home, he has to feel me. See me see trouble, I restrained but he started tryin to tear my clothes oh, I ran to d kitchen to look for a knife, I cut myself, I broke all his dishes, pple, it was a very long tin oh! It was when he saw d broken dishes he opened his door and asked me to keave. Dat guy is psycho. Babes, tis now a crime to visit a guy oh. Guys be gentle men and not pervs

  8. Hi people, my name is dapo and I happening to knw the two characters in question. The dude is like a brother and she my girlfriend. She actually told me about this before but since it happended way before us and the connection with both parties, I just tot ‘some dudes sha’ n decided to let bygone b bygone. Since d release of this blog hav tot abt d meanin n consequences n d fact dat I wnt want my girl goin tru d whle charade, so I decided to talk 2her n share my views(wch I did). Before I got 2 see Ronke, a mumber startd calln me but I didn’t pick. After abt 20sumtin missd calls frm dis same nos I guessed who it was n askd a friend 4 confirmation n I was rit, it was d dude calln. I spoke wit him n told him I was to see Ronke dat day n I’m sure its a matter we can still mutually settle. I was glad wen Ronke said she’s in agreement wit me n wil let it go(even if she only decided 2do dat cus of me). I didn’t inform any1 wat myslf n Ronke decided on(tot hav rubbed my nose in oda pples biz long enuff)n I 4got abt it. I was in a state of shock wen Ronke calld me dis mornin n strtd goin at me(tot it was abt d couple’s disagreement we had d 9t b4)her call woke me. She was talkn abt me postn a comment n neva supportn her. I still didn’t understnd wat she was sayn (don’t I hav betta tinz 2do dan postn comment online, esply 1 dats not in support of her?) So I askd her 2send me d link again n dis it was, a dude tryn 2b me.d mention of d cologne n d name ‘dude lama’ is a delibarate act by d person 2mak it sound lik me. Obviously d person is sum1 dat knws myslf n Ronke r 2geda n a suppose 2b friend of mine(judging b d mention of d cologne in capital letters). The cologne CURVE is 1 dat hav bin usin 4 ova 10yrs now(its lik a signature smell 4me)n stil can’t find a store dat sells it in naija. After readn, I came 2 undastnd Ronkes angre n why she didn’t see 2obvious indication dat I wasn’t d1 dat postd dat. D 1st bin d referral 2d cologne as perfume(I neva cal it dat cus its not a perfume) most peeps don’t knw d diff btw pef n colognes. Secondly, d name dude lama(lik WTF is dat) how many more fingers do I hav 2point at myslf. Ronke has sworn persecute d case n right now I don’t giv a RAT’s ASS. Same pple I’m on d lookout 4 r d 1s tryn 2 frame me in2 dis(pple we cal friends sumtims ehn). I knw u guys wil read dis post n hav got just 1message for y’all, ‘FUCK U GUYS’ and see y’all in court. Oh yeah, I told Ronke to go ahead n do wat she wants. U guys just fucked wit d wrooooooooooooooong dude.

  9. I think heiress lama is cooking this up.. I know this brother involved and he has no need to force you to have sex… Seems ur story is truly cooked cos I wonder how that will happen. Hope u have witnesses… Cos If u r nt careful. We got pple ready to work on this and u can be in real trouble..so end this while u still have the chance

  10. This Dapo Hilar dude,abi whatever U call urself.. Did U read what U wrote after U typed all these jargons? I bet that’s how ur brain thinks too,that’s why it all came out looking like shit.. Anyway,ur response is outta line and confusing too.. You are educating people about perfume/cologne.. Hehehe.. I no fit laugh and it can’t be found in stores in Nig?! Dude,just STFU already!!! Do U sound as stupid to urself,coz U sound very stupid to me.. Better go and find something to do with your life.. See you in court ko,see U in the arena ni.. Aboki perfume U r using,we will not hear word again,signature scent ko,signature odour. Better focus on getting urself educated.. I don’t even understand what U r on about.. Whether U r d one wanting to force sex on a girl,abi U r the guy’s househelp,I don’t even understand.. In the meantime,STFU and spare us all the bullshit U hv to say.. Nonsense….. Mtchew!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! What Yahoo is causing. The irony. Signature smell ko..

  11. lol…………………………………..this is turning into a nigerian movie @d comments….. come on……..let this be….guy at fault or not,y all d justification..let LAMA REST OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO…………WINTCHES AND WINZARDS!!!!!!!

    DIS REANNE DEY PARA O….HAN HAN….wch one na??

  12. I think u should go to court if you wanna instead of making a fuss about it… Whether u were raped or not shouldn’t be a subject to debate on. If u’ve got proof, go to court. I actually don’t think you are ready to court…. Stop the melodrama.

  13. Hahaha may work people not catch me laughing like this.

    In all honesty though ladies I think we sometimes put ourselves in this wahala with the exception of cases like Ronke’s. In Ronke’s case she only went there for business as she’d usually done and their relationship/communication prior to the episode was purely business.

    However in the other cases ladles: you and a guy are friends he is catching feelings and you two keep discussing and all and you then say you want to spend the night- of course there’ll be ‘pussy struggle’ now. What do you expect? He has fresh meet in his lair and you expect him to pass it up?

    Of course if he is a gentleman and really wants to get to know you first without trying to struggle for the cookie he’ll free the issue and substitute with staying up to chat with you all night on topics that you both like or just allowing you sleep. There are still some gentlemen out there. However ladies have to set standards in order to bring out the gentle man in every man.

    Don’t be deceived by guys ladies. Set your standard. If he wants to take you for a late party then he should be prepared to make arrangements to take you home after or if you can’t go home make arrangements as to where you’ll sleep without any clash.

    You to if you know that there’s the slightest possibility that this guy is catching feelings don’t set yourself up for ‘pussy struggles’

    I always say konji is not a respecter of persons but it hasn’t killed anyone yet.

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