I’m a 33year old Nigerian female, single and obviously being disturbed by my parents to get married, whilst I’m ready and willing to get married, I’m not ready to settle for a man who is just starting life; crucify me if you may but I’m only interested in an already made man, I’m just trying to secure my future. I’ve entered enough public transport to last me a life time and I’m tired of splitting my salary in 2 (half for me, half for boyfriend). I want a better life than I have now and more importantly I’m thinking about my unborn children, I want to give them the opportunities I never got. I don’t see how this can be achieved marrying a man who is still doing the hustle.
I’ll take the words right out of some people’s mouths, “gold digger”! I’ve been labelled that so it’s not new but I ask, is there anything wrong in seeking only already made men/women? Is that really gold digging?
I really need your opinons on this……pleasssssseeeeeeeeeee.
Let’s discuss this.