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As I’m a serial boyfriend of sort, you’ll agree with me that I must have h-e-a-r-d loads of “What I want in my man”.

I’ve met women who are only interested in ‘TDH” (Tall Dark & Handsome) men….

I’ve also met some who go a step further by saying they are only interested in “TDHGF” (Tall Dark Handsome & God Fearing) but none of these prepared me for the lady I met last Saturday.

She said, she’s only interested in “AMGWT” (A Man Good With His Tongue).  She’s so much like my good friend “Chijioke” who says, “A good woman swallows”

Ladies and Gentlemen, I ask, is a good knowledge of FELLATIO/CUNNILINGUS a plus?

Noble Igwe

Noble Igwe

Nobs is a SLU…shh trust fund kid who works just to exercise his body and mind. He’s “Unruly” but as calm as the “ABE” boys. Referred to as FYI (Fly, Young and Igbo) by his friends, Nobs says iT tHe wAy iT iS. Follow him on Twitter @nobsdaslushhkid Enough of the English language……..My name is Noble Igwe,go figure!


  1. Is dat even a question? Its a plus, infact it is an ESSENTIAL SKILL

    “You gotta lick it, before you stick it” 😀

  2. its a plus…you don’t want him down there, with no knowledge of what the hell he is doing and could then hurt me…you wouldn’t want the same would you…so its more than just the willingness to do it…is that you know how to work it good…. 🙂

  3. You will only appreciate how much of a plus it is when uv never gotten it before!u can’t rili force a guys head down there if he’s not interested!new motto; no suck no fuck!

  4. Most definitely a plus!!! Ah!!! In my very humble opinion, “a man good with his tongue” is God’s gift to women. Forget bout TDH for now and see the bigger picture. Lol, lemme put it this way, the ideal man is God fearing, hardworking and he knows all the uses his tongue have. God bless the man and woman that give head and do it well. May their days be long. Can i get an “Amen”?!?!

  5. my woman calls it my pink muscle, and she loves it to pieces!! Oh, and by the way, she has a veeery good knowledge of fellatio! go figure…

    1. I totally agree with ‘Hmmm’ – abstinence before marriage. So between husband and wife – whatever works for both of them.

      And before anybody jumps on the argument of needing practice and sexual compatibility before getting married(which I think is absolute bollocks) I believe High chief said it takes practice.

      Bottom line no one is born with any of these skills plus if you feel attracted enough to someone to get married (for the right reasons hopefully) then you would be sexually compatible.

  6. Hahaha! this is a funny topic, but i must say that it is a PLUS! for a man to know how to give a head to his woman…hmmmmmm… ;). Why stick it in alone when you can give her maximum pleasure by sucking on it too with your tongue? Men have to learn the art of using their tongues because some dont even know how to do it right. my 50cents.

  7. @HMMM So when u get married nko? u will stick to just missionary? abi u will still see liking sex as a ‘spoilt’ thing?

  8. OMG am so…luving this n yes my man has to know has to give mii a head cos i’ll be returning the favour, just met this guy we just started dating n i have started giving him hints..hope he catches my drift sha….

  9. If you’re in a relationship or married, it’s a good idea to be able to do EVERYTHING! Both men and women. To get, you have to give. Its just the way it works…

  10. this site na wa…anyways i think dat every lady would appreciate a head at some point during sex and of course it should be a returnable favour!

  11. Great topic!!! I am a guy and didn’t know how to use my tongue for years! I thot it was just lick randomly for a few minutes to get her wet and find my way in. APPARENTLY NOT!!! All this changed when i met Ms. Kay! She was patient and taught me how she wanted to be pleasured. It cud take her 45minutes to get an orgasm. My jaw wud always almost break. With time i got used to it and orgasms wud come in 10minutes. My point? Guys r not given a manual from birth. Ladies, be patient and tell him exactly what u want. Its not JAMB, he will understand it with time and u will be happy u were patient.

    WARNING!!! When he becomes a pro, he will definately want to share his newly acquired skill! I am an example 😉

  12. the tongue is a very useful apparatus mehn …. my man knows that s the best part of it all for me …. lol@ high chief …Naughty ..

  13. wow! dis is crazy, glad a couple of dudes r startin to com out and say they ve tried it b4 cos most boiz wudnt say it

  14. My only concern is that is it not dangerous? as in can’t someone get an infection or even AIDs from that. I mean besides that sucking is very sweet mayne.

  15. sex is a beautiful experience, made by God for us to enjoy and enjoy and oh!!! enjoy! problem is: its been abused! am not a saint, but if the creator of sex says wait till marriage, then we shd try to, hard as it is (even for me), lets try….. and oh yeah I wld appreciate all the glory my man can gimme down there but lets tie the knots first and then rock the show!

  16. Giving head is the easiest way to make your partner climax. However, it comes with risk factors like bacterial infections, HPV (which has no cure for now) or even HIV (cureless as well). So both of you might wanna run a comprehensive test before sticking out that tongue. NUFF SAID

  17. I once met this guy who decided to give me head. Unfortunately, he couldn’t even find my clit. I endured it for like 3 min and promptly feigned an headache and went home to read. Ma conclusion was dat if he couldn’t find ma clit, how d hell could he make me come. So guys study ur biology 101 well.

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